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IDIOMS · FAMILY

Chinese Idioms about Family & Parenting

Chengyu about family bonds, parental sacrifice, and generational continuity — 含辛茹苦, 望子成龙, 天伦之乐 — the four-character phrases that turn up in family contexts.

hán含holdxīn辛bitterrú茹eatkǔ苦suffering

Hold the bitter and swallow the suffering — endure hardship (especially for one's children).

wàng望hopezǐ子sonchéng成becomelóng龙dragon

Hoping one's son becomes a dragon — parents' high hopes for their child.

tiān天heavenlylún伦bondszhī之oflè乐joy

The joy of family bonds.

zǐ子sonchéng承inheritfù父fatheryè业work

The son carries on the father's work — family business / craft passed to the next generation.

bēi悲sorrowhuān欢joylí离separationhé合reunion

Joys and sorrows, partings and reunions; the vicissitudes of life.

bīng冰iceqīng清clearyù玉jadejié洁pure

Of noble character and integrity; pure as ice and jade.

chéng成establishjiā家familylì立establishyè业career

To get married and start a career; to settle down.

cùn寸inchbù步stepbù不notlí离leave

Not to leave for even an inch; to stay very close.

ěr耳earrú濡moistenmù目eyerǎn染dye

To be influenced by what one frequently hears and sees; to be influenced unconsciously.

fā发developyáng扬promoteguāng光shinedà大big

To develop and promote; to carry forward and enhance.

hòu后behindgù顾lookzhī之ofyōu忧worry

Fears of trouble in the rear; worries about what might happen in the future.

jié节economizeyī衣clothingsuō缩reduceshí食food

To economize on clothing and food; to live frugally.

kǔ苦bitterkǒu口mouthpó婆old womanxīn心heart

To advise earnestly and repeatedly; to give earnest and well-meaning advice.

lǐ礼courtesyshàng尚esteemwǎng往golái来come

Courtesy demands reciprocity; to return politeness for politeness.

lǐ理reasonsuǒ所bydāng当shouldrán然so

As a matter of course; inevitable and right; taken for granted.

méi眉eyebrowskāi开openyǎn眼eyesxiào笑smile

To beam with joy; to be all smiles.

qián潜hiddenyí移movemò默silenthuà化change

to influence secretly; to be gradually affected

qīng青bluechū出come outyú于fromlán蓝indigo

The student surpasses the teacher; the younger generation excels the older.

quán全wholexīn心heartquán全wholeyì意intention

With all one's heart and soul; wholeheartedly; devotedly.

tǔ土soilshēng生borntǔ土soilzhǎng长grow

Native; locally born and bred.

wēn温warmwén文refineděr尔andyǎ雅elegant

Gentle, refined, and cultivated; possessing a mild and elegant demeanor.

wú无nojiā家homekě可canguī归return

Homeless; without a home to return to.

wú无withoutwēi微smallbù不notzhì至reach

in every possible way; meticulous

xíng形formyǐng影shadowbù不notlí离separate

Inseparable as form and shadow; always together.

yǐ以useshēn身bodyzuò作makezé则example

To lead by example; to set an example with one's own conduct.

zhāng张hangdēng灯lanternsjié结tiecǎi彩colorful silk

to hang up lanterns and colored streamers; to decorate for a festive occasion

zhāo朝morningxī夕eveningxiāng相each otherchǔ处be together

to be together from morning till night; to spend a lot of time together

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