jiù咎blameyóu由fromzì自selfqǔ取take
To have only oneself to blame; to stew in one's own juice.
Literal meaning
blame (咎) — from (由) — self (自) — take (取)
Origin
A classical four-character phrase meaning that one's misfortune is the result of one's own actions.
Examples
Tā他jīn今tiān天de的xià下chǎng场wán完quán全shì是jiù咎yóu由zì自qǔ取，guài怪bu不de得bié别rén人。
His current situation is entirely his own fault; he can't blame anyone else.
Rú如guǒ果nǐ你bù不tīng听quàn劝gào告，yī一yì意gū孤xíng行，jiāng将lái来shī失bài败le了yě也shì是jiù咎yóu由zì自qǔ取。
If you don't listen to advice and insist on having your own way, you will have only yourself to blame if you fail in the future.
Usage & nuances
Has a strong negative connotation, implying responsibility for one's own misfortune.
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